Wednesday, January 14, 2009

The 48 Laws of Power

The only factor that makes humans the most superior species on this planet is the power to think and interpret those thoughts into action. The ulterior motive of all these actions is to attain a superior position in the society. In the book ‘The 48 Laws of Power’, writer Robert Greene has tried to identify the basic rules of action which can provide a reader with larger benefits in life.

The first law mentioned in the book says: ‘Never Outshine Your Master’. As individuals most of us try to outshine our seniors and peers. This is done with the view that our efforts will be highlighted and appreciated with additional benefits in our career and social status. However what most of us fail to understand is that, in a normal institution the feedback of out seniors matter the most. As a competitor we will only increase the feeling of insecurity and thus provoke him to fight back. The main message through this law is to make use of diplomacy in matters concerning others feedback.


The two laws that made the maximum impact on me are ‘Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies’ and ‘Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy’. I am sure most of us will fell that this nothing but betrayal. But on second thoughts I realized that most of the decisions of our lives are influenced by the people around our lives. Those are none other than family and friends. The point is many a time we make sacrifices in our lives for others and in return suffer a greater loss. Remember not all our friends will remain the same through out our lives. And then the question arises whether the past actions were justified. What is important is that we must act like friends to all but committed to none: ‘Do Not Commit to Anyone’. Always remember the Gaius Julius Caesar was assassinated by men who were thought to be his allies. It was estimated that the conspirators numbered around 60, but only 16 were known.


The most important message of the book is: ‘Master the Art of Timing’. Remember only those actions which are done at the right time will give you the right results. Actors, comedians and professional speakers all know the difference between success and failure is often a matter of timing. Get that wrong and everything else falls flat. It's the same in the business world. If you present an idea, contact a customer, speak to a supplier or try to deal with an under performing subordinate at the wrong time, your changes of success are close to zero. Note that to be able to choose your time, you must be willing to pass over opportunities that don't feel right. Haste breeds anxiety, which is fatal to good timing.

Reader’s Verdict: Buy and Read.

This book is a sure ‘must have’ for all the power hungry Gods among Human species. For those who can’t spend time on reading other’s experiences, better buy the abridged version for this will assure you never miss any step on the ladder to success.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

The one minute apology - by Ken Blanchard

No of pages - 107
Price - INR 125.00
Reading Time - approx. 45 minutes
Othe Books by the same author - The One Minute Manager
Summary - This book - in the form of a story - tells us the importance of an apology when done with the correct intentions and in a proper manner. The book basically covers three aspects of a sincere apology :
  1. Realising the mistake we did, the resons behind it and the effect it has on the other person
  2. Making an apology - as soon as possible, telling the other person exactly what one did wrong and how do I feel about it, regardless of the outcome
  3. Completing the apology - by recognising the mistake, its inconsistency with ones behaviour, resolving not to commit the act again and in the end forgiving oneself.

At the end of the book, you do feel that you have the tools to make a perfect apology, if there was any. A crisp, concise book which delves on one of the most important yet most ignored aspects of human relations - the apology

Rating - ***

Ratings Scale : * duh, ** okay, *** Good read, **** WOW

Saurabh Maheshwari

The author of this review is a voracious reader and reads at least one book every week. For more on the author's professional details, please visit his linked in page.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Review of the book "If God were a Banker"

"If God were a Banker" by Ravi Subramaniam, Rupa and Co, Rs 195.00

Being a banker, I picked up this book with great interest. Some reviews which I had received on the book were excellent and hence the expectations from the book was sky high.
The book started well with the story of 2 management trainee's joining an MNC bank from Campus and it held ones attention throughout as they charted their careers within the organisation. The quitessential storyline of good guy - bad guy takes over. The story keeps you interested throughout, and in the end, the good guy wins.

A good read as a fiction story set in the Banking environment.

Overall rating : ****

Monday, May 19, 2008

review of the Book - The 3 mistakes of my life - Chetan Bhagat


After "5 point someone" and "One night@call center", this is the third book by the noted and successful Indian Author Chetan Bhagat. The story presented here is based in Ahmedabad before and after the riots of 2006. In this book, the author presents the story fo enterprising young guys, all based in Ahmedabad. The author takes you through their individual passions - Business, Cricket and not being a preist with such details and expertise that one almost identifies with the charachters of the story. The ups and downs of lives, both professional and personal are captured in vivid details. The author sticks to his forte, the young, out of college, vibrant and at times confused college students as his main cast. But however, after writing on the yuppie crowd at the IIT and the Call Centres, this book might come out as little too dramatic, though the time when the same is set allows for it.


All in all, the book is worth a dekko in your spare time, specially when it is priced within the reach of everyone at Rs 95.00


Overall rating: ***


Saurabh Maheshwari


***** Worth a million

**** excellent work

*** value for money

** not much

* du-uh